hate is not wrong

    ura soul
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    hate is not wrong

    there are many on earth at this timing who believe and preach that 'hate is bad', 'hate causes our problems' and 'hate must end'. this is not a true awareness of hate.

    hate is only extreme dislike. if someone were to stamp on your toes with strength, every time you stood up - for a month - you would very likely extremely dislike that this has occurred. that extreme dislike is hate. there is nothing wrong with hate. usually the challenge that needs to evolve before balance and comfort can be experienced is that either the object of the hate needs to change in some way, OR  some form of emotional expression & movement is needed on the part of the one that hates. the form of the movement/change/evolution in 'the hater' may be to simply move away from that which is hated. there is no need to try to force a dis-honest calm or reprogram your thoughts to attempt to artificially accept what is hated. some things on earth are purely evil and to accept them is not an act of honesty or integrity.

    if you deny your true feelings and deny that you truly feel hatred, you are denying yourself and you are injuring yourself emotionally. in fact, denying your own hatred IS AN ACT OF SELF-HATRED, since to deny how you truly feel and have felt is unloving and un-compassionate towards you.

    so be aware, those that pressure and judge us and our true feelings to deny our reality are the real threat and danger to wellbeing - though there is no need to judge them, blame them, attack them or scorn them; they are usually unconscious of the full depth of the situation.

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      • metaspective
        metaspective

        Some very good points here mate, which I'll consider carefully before responding in detail. While I can see the sense in not denying one's feelings, do we not think there's a physiological cost of experiencing strong negative emotions such as hate? Aren't the chemicals formed dangerous in themselves? I look forward to discussing this further.

        • ura soul
          ura soul

          the act of thinking has not yet been fully recognised by the majority on earth as itself having a physical end emotional effect in self. the effect of thought can itself potentially be the cause of damaging physiological changes and thus it is (as far as i am aware) more the thoughts that are the origin of the issues, than the emotions are.

          in either case, ending the use of placing value judgments of 'positive' and 'negative' onto emotions is necessary for them to feel accepted and to thus be held lovingly and to not be denied. only when the balanced inner state of total self acceptance is allowed will the full truth of the emotions be known and felt. while they are being judged, they are being denied and while they are denied they are mis-interpreted and not known in full.

          rather than seeking to manipulate self into not hating, i advise instead to take action to bring balance in a way that does not deny that some aspects of life are worthy of being hated (extremely disliked). ending judgment is a first and valid step in this direction. the more love that is present in self, the easier this is and the aspects of self that carry the hate are themselves worthy of love. once full self love is present and full acceptance of hate is present, things can move and evolve to be more loving overall.

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          • metaspective
            metaspective

            I agree 'hate is not wrong...', my point here is that it is undesirable for several reasons; namely the neurochemical fallout, that this emotion clouds one's judgement and that the vibe affects everything and everyone else. Hence hate is destructive. And there's another reason. I've never felt hate in myself, but I'm concerned there's something - I can't even call it an entity - that hates life, all life, and it's close. I'm all for love, but I sense this malevolent something thrives on hate. Sorry for the vagueness, but it's difficult to conceptualise..

            • harmony
              harmony

              ura soul Wow.. I just had a light bulb moment reading this :) very well said ura! I often find myself saying that it is not healthy to hate as I don't like the emotional feeling of it,but at the same time of thinking this I feel I am conflicting with myself,which I think is called 'Cognitive dissonance' which in fact is said to be 'the unseen enemy of man kind'  so guess I haven't been honest with myself here as I can see clearly now to deny these feelings (or any feelings) if arise would be to deny healing to bring balance..

              • ura soul
                ura soul

                yes, even now only a small minority of humans understand and apply this in their experience of earth. the programming against healing these issues is huge and forms significant parts of entire establishment structures and thinking - including the judiciary, media and schools.

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                • harmony
                  harmony

                  Yes I can see that clearly now and I am applying and going to share with whomever crosses my path with the word :)