emotional balance needs to be comprehended deeply now

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    emotional balance needs to be comprehended deeply now

    the emotional self is the most misunderstood aspect of self and almost no-one yet has the full depth that is available on this topic. i am not here to 'show off' anything - i simply have been blessed with guidance from source directly on this topic at this timing.

    all forms of control are unhealthy - especially control of the emotions. emotions are 'energy motion' and thus they are not being what they truly are if they are not moving and vibrating. controlling emotion is limiting vibration and it is this that more than anything else will 'lower your vibration'. it is not that 'fear and anger lower your vibration' at ALL. it is the denial of the true feelings that causes the dysfunctions within the emotional body, NOT the emotions themselves.

    fear is a valid response. anger and rage are valid responses. in fact, rage is more loving than much of what 'spiritual people' often call 'loving'. rage is your will responding to being denied and overpowered. it is the raw survival surge of personal will that seeks to keep you alive because it loves you and you are loved. thus rage is the will that seeks balance for you after being overpowered. to deny rage its true vibration is nothing less than slow suicide.

    rage needs to be moved safely and privately for most people as we commonly have backlogs of suppressed emotions that we are unconscious of. there is no amount of mentalisation that can replace the movement of true feelings. true feelings have a signature sound that they translate to and it is the sound that is needed to be expressed. we are vibrational beings and sound is vibration.

    it is the heart that is the physical embodiement of the bonding of thought and feeling (yang and yin - male and female). by feeling unconditionally and moving the presence of self into the heart fully, we can begin to balance in a real and sacred way that has been rare on earth for aeons.

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      • ura soul
        ura soul

        we are all unique, yes - however, the emotions are a continuum of life and their properties are not widely accepted or being understood on earth. the reality here is that there is no way to know the value of allowing rage to express in sound until it is given deep acceptance and becomes a lived experience. the mind that thinks it knows the situation in advance is simply trapped in it's own judgments and is causing denial. it is better in every case to end this consciously and to remain open to possibilities, than it is to limit reality and control our own energy due to belief systems.

        if I start growling now I would feel even more disturbed at the end of it.

        as stated, there is no way to know in advance how you will feel after emotions begin to move. it is possible that you would uncover deeper and more heavily denied emotions and parts of self - which is why this needs to be recognised as a healing process to be either done with loving intent or not done at all. the real result of lovingly expressing our held charges and backlog of emotions is a greater peace, balance and self acceptance than can be achieved any other way.

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        • ura soul
          ura soul

          it is wise to listen to the feelings, yes. the best possible help for this process, that i know of - is available in the books from rightuseofwill.com. they are channelled by a woman in america, from spirit and are on the topic of healing us in ways that very few are aware of. let me know if you are interested in them and i may be able to help you access them.

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          • ura soul
            ura soul

            having trained in a particularly balanced and effective martial art for long enough to know, i understand that - in fact - the imbalance that controlling emotions inevitably causes, is itself an attractor for the fights that the arts are used in. in other words, despite claims to the contrary, it is the desire to fight that causes us to attract fights into our own reality. i have been attacked by a giant of a man and felt the attack before it occurred - so i knew to move out of the way before the attacker had even begun to strike. i learned here, although i did not know then the full details of the mechanics that were involved, that events in our lives are drawn to us and we are magnetic. therefore, in understanding this, it can be felt and real-eyesed that all violence can be prevented through finding, allowing and causing our own internal balance. such total balance requires a total end of all control.

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            • ura soul
              ura soul

              the process of creation has numerous aspects and one of them is the magnetic attraction / drawing, which is an aspect of will. some of us relate to this with what is being labelled as 'the law of attraction' - however, it can more deeply be recognised by identifying the push/pull and attraction/repulsion that we experience in response to events and individuals, in the form of a felt response and intuitive impulse. in essence, we are drawn to and repulsed from energies and beings in accordance with our desire and emotional alignment. it is not until control begins to end on all levels and we are receptive to the process of attracting our own destiny that we will begin to notice this flow to life that, in truth, is a constant.. however, there is also the very real and dysfunctional problem on earth that results from emotional control, where many have become virtually completely will-less, which means that the attractive process is unconscious and even virtually non-existent. in these cases, it is virtually impossible to understand the attraction process and thus it appears to not exist.

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              • ura soul
                ura soul

                @tanyal - every case is unique and the energy dynamics involved can be both subtle and multi-layered. additionally, much of what i am pointing at is actually unconscious, which means that we are entirely unaware of this aspect within us, until we consciously make the intent to be aware of our unconsciousness and find what is in us that is setting up the attractions in life. i could have used clearer language to explain what i wrote here before about attracting conflicts and i am not purely saying that all fights are attracted due to us wanting or liking to fight. to clarify, what i am saying is that even the predators in society can only come into our experience as a result of our own magnetic draw/repulsion/attraction and so if they are in our immediate vicinity it is necessary to ask what it is that we are holding that is drawing them to us...

                for example, in my case the attraction for the fight i had mentioned was a complex result of years of frustration in life and the associated anger that had built up in me. my school was very controlling and punishments were 'the norm', yet violence was not. all of this control, over years, combined with obvious heartlessness in the students and the teachers, resulted in a pool of unexpressed anger/rage at having been overpowered so often and also judged against. this combined with a kind of 'fighting spirit' in me that was determined not to give up or be overpowered, despite the size of the opponent (in this case it is the schooling system and the governmental programming) and i liked this part of me. even though i would not say i 'liked to fight' or even wanted to fight, i would simultaneously say that i was WILLING to fight to protect me. there is no judgment in attraction and the REFLECTIONS we draw to us and so i attracted a physical reflection of what was 'playing out' inside of me and what i was holding. just as a tuning fork that resonates to a particular frequency will also cause other objects to vibrate that are tuned to the same frequency, so too does the soul cause this in physical reality. i drew to me a reflection of 'intimidating form', in the form of a steroid junky, body builder attacking me for no visual, obvious reason. this allowed me to FEEL intuitively the power i truly have to cause change in my life and how i don't need anyone else's permission to do so - in fact, it is automatic. i was also then gradually put more and more into touch with the feelings i had denied previously to 'fit in' and 'feel safe' in a society that seeks to control real emotion at every opportunity.

                the only way to fully prevent such attacks and interactions is to process all emotions and increase the quotient of loving essence within us, such that our anger quickly evolves and resolves, plus our own heartlessness evolves to heart feeling and balance. when this is achieved, we are awake and we feel the origins of everything that is drawn to us, without the mystery and judgments that cloud our vision - such as 'the world is full of idiots' and/or 'men are nasty and violent'. instead of these judgments, we can find understanding and further empowerment - even to the point of being (to some extent) happy to have been 'attacked', since we now realise that the attack was a reflection of our own internal long-term injuries and that now we know they exist, we can heal much more deeply than was possible than when we were unconscious of them.

                obviously it is preferable to never be attacked, yet without reflections arising of the injuries we are holding that these attacks reflect back to us, we may never real-eyes that we need to find and heal these lost parts in us.

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                • ura soul
                  ura soul

                  it helps to know why alcohol can trigger such movement. alcohol inhibits the nervous system, which results in the control that the mind is enforcing within self to be temporarily released. this means that the electric self is no longer controlling the feminine, magnetic self and for a while the real emotions are free to express (albeit in an out of balance way, due to the lack of coherence in the electric self and overall body/being).

                  the shadow self is simply self that has been denied.

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                  • ura soul
                    ura soul

                    you will find at some point in the ruow series, that spirit makes clear that 'acting out' the emotions is not healing. the specific way to evolve the emotions is to make sounds and allow body movement, without the mentalisation that channels the emotion into actions that reflect the imprints that are being held. the way to not be triggered into acting out injured emotions is simply to just keep moving in private and being consistent with the intentions to heal, balance and evolve (plus the other steps to healing that are provided).

                    emotions may move to protect us, but we can feel the difference between emotions that move to protect and emotions that are caught up with judgements and denials that have us creating imbalance, rather than creating from balance.

                    i made this video a few years ago about psychopathy.. some people who saw it were helped by it. i have learned more now and so will be making some better videos soon. this one is only visible to friends in ureka: https://www.ureka.org/file/view/7376/healing-the-psychopath-from-hurting-to-hearting

                    (i was in a LOT of pain at the time i made that video, so my demeanor and presentation is stressed and not as balanced as i am now!)

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                    • ura soul
                      ura soul

                      @space: yes, our essence can be lost and recovered. most of us have experience of this and, indeed, this is part of the cause of aging. i have experienced this consciously while sleeping, but that is a long and complex 'story'.

                      at it's root, i recognise psychopathy to be the direct result of the denial of true feelings and non allowance of thoughts to bond lovingly with feelings in the heart. the result of this is always the perpetuation of more unlovingness and destruction of that which is loving. i comprehend that all/most psychopathy can be healed, yet the path to that may be long and complicated for the majority. every time we decide to push aside a feeling we are making a psychopathic choice and most of us do this regularly! however, this also means that every time we lovingly accept and express our real feelings, we potentially heal an aspect of psychopathy that may or may not have been recognised.

                      as you will learn as you read more of the ruow books, the feminine essence is not only magnetic but also can literally result in 'recording' and 'playing back' experiences, just like a vhs cassette tape does; so it is common for those who have been touched by unlovingness to re-create the unlovingness. once this is learned to be the unconscious cause for the attraction, the situation can be seen to be an opportunity to heal deeply - though every situation is unique and thus the exact path of healing will vary somewhat from individual to individual.

                      the ruow books really do offer a seriously deep exploration of these topics and i am very thankful for attracting them to me :)

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                      • ura soul
                        ura soul

                        well, yes, technically many really aren't human! when i say 'healed', i do not necessarily mean that they directly evolve to be a loving human being, in the way that most would conclude the word 'healed' means. they will simply no longer be embodied as a heartless entity on earth; though what that exactly means for each individual will be somewhat different, case by case.

                        i think some would say that i have been through a 'nervous breakdown' too. in my case it was the result of pushing my body and will too far out of balance and also being pushed by others too. some blueprints just don't make a good home, so the building needs to be reconstructed before it's too late ;)

                        i just got a green screen here, so i can make videos that look a bit more professional. i'm in the process of selling my electric guitar too and i'm going to use the money from that to get a better camera and upgrade my pc for video processing. so basically, i should be able to make nice videos at some point in the near future. more to come soon!

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                        • ura soul
                          ura soul

                          i feel that the issue with anger, as with all of self, is whether or not we are fully allowing anger to be known and accepted for what it is. only now am i able to express anger in a way that also feels loving to me - when triggered. when blame and judgment are not present, there is no guilt created and anger is felt to be the naturally protective movement that it is.. as long as we judge against it, there is the potential for backlash and reflections of our imbalances to be created. knowing that the reflections are being shown to us in 'the mirror of physical reality' requires significant shifts in perception and understanding, yet ultimately it does help us to balance and create peace.

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                          • ura soul
                            ura soul

                            @space: you are welcome! i am glad you are opening to more of yourself and moving towards new balance. :)

                            i found that balancing the food i eat made a big difference to my overall energetic balance and emotions. if you have a 'cold' and also have a juicer, i definitely recommend this amazing drink: https://www.ureka.org/videos/watch/2756/ultimate-lemon-ginger-blast-for-peace

                            i have seen it stop colds in 24 hours and i simply don't get any type viral or 'flu' illness at all now, since i drink these most days. :)

                            australia sounds great, especially during this 'cold' period in europe, i wish you well on your travels!

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